feat(chat): upgrade @legendapp/list to 3.3.8 and let it own end following

3.3.x makes maintainScrollAtEnd follow content growth on its own — a
tail row growing in place included — which is exactly what the manual
totalSize correction existed for. Delete that correction (the totalSize
listener now only drives the anchored-turn glide) and pick up 3.3.x's
measurement batching, prepend-flash fixes, and web programmatic-scroll
fixes. Opt the explicit maintainScrollAtEnd config into footerLayout per
the 3.1.1 guidance.

The library's own released-on-user-scroll heuristic proved unreliable
one run in three against synthetic touch, so the gesture state machine
stays authoritative: while a real gesture owns the scroll, the list's
end pinning is switched off through a threaded endPinningReleased prop
and re-engages when the user returns to the end.

Validated with the CDP battery on a production build: stream follow
stays at distance 0, mobile drag releases with the pill shown in three
of three runs, resize oscillation stays at the reduced level, the rail
reaches the last turn, and profiled streaming cost per rendered
character matches the tuned 3.2.0 numbers.

packages/ui/package.json

@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@
     "@dnd-kit/core": "^6.3.1",
     "@dnd-kit/sortable": "^10.0.0",
     "@dnd-kit/utilities": "^3.2.2",
-    "@legendapp/list": "3.2.0",
+    "@legendapp/list": "3.3.8",
     "@lezer/highlight": "^1.2.3",
     "@opencode-ai/sdk": "1.18.21",
     "@pierre/diffs": "1.3.0-beta.6",