refactor(desktop): make Tauri thin shell running web sidecar (#273)

## What / Why
This PR finishes the desktop refactor: the Tauri app is now a thin shell that launches the web server as a sidecar and loads the UI from `http://127.0.0.1:<port>`. All real backend logic lives in `packages/web/server/index.js`; desktop Rust keeps only native integrations (menu/dialog/notifications/updater/deep-link + window chrome).
This unblocks:
- consistent behavior across web/desktop/vscode (single backend)
- simpler desktop maintenance (no duplicated Rust backend)
- host switching between Local + remote instances in desktop
- reliable cold-start behavior on slow machines (VSCode + desktop)
## Key changes
- Desktop sidecar runtime
  - build pipeline to bundle web dist + `openchamber-server` sidecar (`packages/desktop/scripts/build-sidecar.mjs`)
  - robust local port selection (prefer saved/default, fallback to random; persisted in `~/.config/openchamber/settings.json`)
  - improved PATH handling so the sidecar can locate `opencode` CLI (incl `~/.opencode/bin`, overrides, common bins)
  - disable native right-click context menu in production builds (dev keeps it)
- Desktop instance switcher (Tauri-only)
  - header button + modal to add/edit/delete remote hosts, set default, probe status/ping, switch back to Local escape hatch
  - auth gate includes host switcher so you can recover when a remote host is broken/auth-required
  - host list stored desktop-locally (not tied to the currently selected remote server)
- Notifications
  - decision logic moved server-side; desktop notifications emitted via sidecar stdout and shown natively by Tauri
  - prevent double-notifications on desktop Local origin (UI ignores SSE notification when native path is active)
  - restore macOS notification sound
- Updates
  - Tauri updater used only when viewing Local instance in desktop shell (avoid “remote web update” triggering desktop restart)
- Settings persistence & UX polish
  - persist model favorites/recents via `/api/config/settings` (works for web + desktop; not origin-dependent)
  - persist per-project sidebar collapse state in `projects[].sidebarCollapsed` via `/api/config/settings` (with debounce on toggles)
  - macOS header sizing/traffic-lights offsets fixed (marketing macOS major injected from desktop; MultiRun header aligned)
  - VSCode cold-start: keep retrying provider/agent loads after connection to avoid empty UI on slow machines
  - misc lint/type fixes + bun.lock sync
- Desktop bootstrap / resiliency
  - show onboarding screen when OpenCode CLI is missing (desktop Local origin), with retry hook to restart OpenCode after install
## Testing notes
- Desktop (macOS): switch Local <-> remote, set default host, verify auth gate recovery, native notifications (with sound), updater gated to Local
- Web: favorites/recents + per-project collapsed state persist across reload/restart
- VSCode: slow startup no longer results in missing providers/agents/models

packages/ui/src/contexts/ThemeSystemContext.tsx

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ import React, {
 } from 'react';
 import type { Theme, ThemeMode } from '@/types/theme';
 import type { DesktopSettings } from '@/lib/desktop';
-import { isDesktopRuntime, isVSCodeRuntime } from '@/lib/desktop';
+import { isDesktopLocalOriginActive, isVSCodeRuntime } from '@/lib/desktop';
 import { CSSVariableGenerator } from '@/lib/theme/cssGenerator';
 import { updateDesktopSettings } from '@/lib/persistence';
 import {
@@ -190,7 +190,7 @@ export function ThemeSystemProvider({ children, defaultThemeId }: ThemeSystemPro
     return existing || null;
   });
   const isVSCode = useMemo(() => isVSCodeRuntime(), []);
-  const isDesktop = useMemo(() => isDesktopRuntime(), []);
+  const isLocalDesktopOrigin = useMemo(() => isDesktopLocalOriginActive(), []);
 
   const availableThemes = useMemo(() => {
     const merged: Theme[] = [];
@@ -256,7 +256,7 @@ export function ThemeSystemProvider({ children, defaultThemeId }: ThemeSystemPro
     try {
       const res = await fetch('/api/config/themes', {
         method: 'GET',
-        credentials: isDesktop ? 'omit' : 'include',
+        credentials: isLocalDesktopOrigin ? 'omit' : 'include',
         headers: {
           Accept: 'application/json',
         },
@@ -280,7 +280,7 @@ export function ThemeSystemProvider({ children, defaultThemeId }: ThemeSystemPro
     } finally {
       setCustomThemesLoading(false);
     }
-  }, [isDesktop, isVSCode]);
+  }, [isLocalDesktopOrigin, isVSCode]);
 
   useEffect(() => {
     void reloadCustomThemes();