fix(chat): anchored-scroll behavior parity with the reference model

Six reported defects, one root theme — our port diverged from the
reference semantics:

- a user gesture no longer collapses the reserved anchored end space
  (that snap-to-bottom was the 'anchoring vanishes on a micro-scroll');
  it only disarms the follow/anchor machinery, and anchor remeasures
  after the user takes over can no longer re-position the viewport
- the anchor arms synchronously BEFORE the send reaches the store, and
  the claim compares against the arm-time baseline — arming a frame
  after the optimistic row committed is why anchoring 'rarely worked'
  and sending from mid-history did nothing
- gestures are selective (wheel up, touch/pointer away from the end,
  PageUp/Home/ArrowUp), so scrolling toward the end or clicking a row
  at the live edge no longer kills follow
- 'at end' is a tight 40px band against the full content length instead
  of the list's half-viewport isNearEnd, so the scroll-to-bottom pill
  appears when the viewport actually leaves the end
- reaching the end re-arms follow without knocking an anchored turn out
  of its mode, and the overlay scrollbar suppression follows scroll
  ownership rather than the anchor's mere existence
- the status/working row moved out of the list footer to a fixed spot
  above the composer: inside the list it walked down with every
  streamed line, and its unmount was part of the end-of-stream jerk

packages/ui/src/components/chat/ChatInput.tsx

@@ -1289,6 +1289,11 @@ const ChatInputComponent: React.FC<ChatInputProps> = ({
             ...additionalParts.flatMap(p => p.attachments ?? []),
         ];
 
+        // Arm the timeline anchor BEFORE the optimistic user row can commit;
+        // arming after (or a frame later) races the commit and the anchor
+        // never claims the new message.
+        scrollToBottom?.();
+
         const sendPromise = sendMessage(
             primaryText,
             providerIdToSend,
@@ -1307,14 +1312,6 @@ const ChatInputComponent: React.FC<ChatInputProps> = ({
             }
         };
 
-        if (typeof window === 'undefined') {
-            scrollToBottom?.();
-        } else {
-            window.requestAnimationFrame(() => {
-                scrollToBottom?.();
-            });
-        }
-
         void sendPromise.then(() => {
             // Record what this session was pointed at, so the work-status panel
             // can show it as a context source long after the message scrolled