feat: persist permission auto-accept on server (#2158)

Move per-session permission auto-accept policy ownership from the UI to the
OpenChamber server so enabled sessions continue running when clients disconnect
or the server restarts.

- persist explicit per-session policies in OpenChamber settings
- inherit the nearest explicit policy across subagent session hierarchies
- allow child sessions to opt out of an inherited parent policy
- immediately accept matching global and directory-scoped pending requests
- process future requests without requiring a connected UI client
- reconcile pending permissions after startup and event-stream reconnects
- deduplicate concurrent requests and retry transient reply failures
- synchronize policy updates across connected clients
- migrate existing browser-persisted policies to server storage
- suppress auto-accepted permission cards before they enter UI state
- show deduplicated permission toasts for inactive sessions
- preserve foreground-only permission handling in VS Code
- integrate directory-aware notification routing from main
- add coverage for persistence, inheritance, retries, reconciliation, pending
  requests, client hydration, and inactive-session toasts

packages/web/server/lib/opencode/core-routes.js

@@ -998,6 +998,7 @@ export const registerCommonRequestMiddleware = (app, dependencies) => {
       req.path.startsWith('/api/opencode') ||
       req.path.startsWith('/api/push') ||
       req.path.startsWith('/api/notifications') ||
+      req.path.startsWith('/api/permission-auto-accept') ||
       req.path.startsWith('/api/session-folders') ||
       req.path.startsWith('/api/small-model') ||
       req.path.startsWith('/api/goals') ||