Node's happy-eyeballs default (autoSelectFamilyAttemptTimeout=250ms)
aborts every connect attempt to provider endpoints whose TCP handshake
exceeds 250ms, so quota fetches from Node processes fail with
"fetch failed" while the Bun-based opencode CLI path succeeds (#3399).
Raise the per-attempt cap to 5s via a shared applyConnectAttemptTimeout()
helper called from the two Node entrypoints that host the quota module:
the Electron main process and the openchamber CLI. Family autoselection
stays enabled (::1 and IPv6→IPv4 fallback preserved); runtimes without
the setter are a no-op.
Bohdan Triapitsyn